Daiyan Trisha prioritises sincerity and compatibility over wealth in choosing a life partner, says mother
BANGSAR: Actress and singer Daiyan Trisha has never measured a potential life partner by financial status or material possessions, with her mother revealing that the entertainer values sincerity, emotional compatibility and shared understanding far more than wealth.
Dr. Samsiah Mohd. Nor said public assumptions that Daiyan is highly selective or only interested in successful, affluent men are far from the truth, describing her daughter as one of the least demanding members of the family when it comes to matters of the heart.
The 61-year-old said Daiyan’s approach to relationships has always been straightforward, with personality and compatibility taking precedence over external factors such as status or financial standing.
“Among my five children, Daiyan is actually the easiest-going when it comes to choosing a partner. She has never been someone who sets unrealistic expectations or looks at a person’s wealth before getting to know them.
“People often have a different perception of her because she’s a public figure, but the Daiyan we know at home is someone who is very simple and down-to-earth,” she said.
Samsiah said the family had occasionally teased Daiyan over some of her earlier choices in relationships, not to criticise them, but because her preferences often differed from what they had expected.
“There were times when we joked about the people she liked. It wasn’t meant to mock anyone; we were simply surprised because those weren’t the kind of choices we imagined she would make.
“But from the beginning, I’ve always respected her decisions because ultimately she is the one who has to live that life. Every relationship teaches us something, and over time she will naturally understand what truly suits her,” she explained.
She believes the most important quality in a relationship is finding someone whose personality and pace of life complement one another.
According to Samsiah, Daiyan is someone with strong ambition, high energy and a fast-moving lifestyle, making emotional compatibility far more important than financial success.
“My only advice has always been to find someone who can walk beside her through life.
“If Daiyan is someone who likes to move quickly, then hopefully her partner can keep pace with her. It doesn’t mean he has to be exactly the same, but there should be mutual understanding so neither person feels left behind.
“A relationship becomes much stronger when two people share similar values, ambitions and life goals,” she said.
She stressed that such compatibility should never be confused with material expectations.
“This has absolutely nothing to do with being materialistic.
“I know many people assume she wants someone wealthy because of her career, but honestly that’s never been the case.
“Daiyan has always appreciated people for who they are. If someone knows how to understand her, respect her and make her feel valued, that’s already something very meaningful to her,” she said.
Samsiah added that her daughter is, in reality, much easier to win over than many people imagine.
“She’s actually not difficult at all. If someone is sincere and genuinely knows how to appreciate her, she’ll value that deeply.
“But if someone is too passive or unable to match her enthusiasm for life, perhaps that’s where challenges may arise. She’s always been someone with a lot of drive, and maybe she inherited a little of that from me,” she said with a laugh.
When asked about Daiyan’s marriage plans, Samsiah said she has never pressured her daughter to settle down, believing that marriage should happen naturally rather than because of age or public expectations.
Instead, she chooses to place her trust in God’s timing and believes every individual has their own journey.
“I’ve never forced her or asked when she’s going to get married. I simply continue praying that she will meet the right person at the right time.
“If that moment hasn’t arrived yet, then perhaps Allah knows it isn’t the best time.
“I always compare it to my novel Anom Suraya. It waited 34 years before finally being adapted into a television drama. It happened when everything aligned perfectly.
“Life is very similar. Some things simply require patience. There’s no need to rush or worry because what has been written for us will eventually come at the right moment,” she said.
Samsiah also expressed confidence that whatever path Daiyan ultimately chooses, it will be one based on maturity, careful consideration and her own life experiences.
“As a mother, all I want is for her to be happy, respected and appreciated. Beyond that, I leave everything to Allah because I believe every person has their own time and their own story,” she added.
